Show up at their activities. Never underestimate the power of your presence. Whether it's a piano recital, a soccer game or a chess match, make it a point to be there. Your kids look up to you, and when they see you swelling up with pride, they will, too.

Sit together during meals. There's something about sharing meals that brings people closer, so make time to eat together at least once a day. If you're feeling distanced from your child's life, this is a great time to get involved through conversation. Ask questions, listen and share a few laughs. They'll appreciate the attention and you'll feel more connected.

Play together. Arguably the most coveted time for your child is playtime, so why shouldn't you share in the fun? This is the best time for you to connect with your kids as a buddy instead of a parent. Let them see your silly side. Brainstorm creative activities together and enjoy.

Make bedtime special. Bedtime is one of the best times to make lasting memories with your children. Reading or telling stories is a great way to teach valuable lessons and inspire imagination. End the night by tucking them in and letting them know how much you care.

Let them help with chores. You might feel like you're expected to be a "super mom," but even a superhero is more effective with a sidekick. Many kids grumble when asked to do chores, but it's usually for lack of purpose, not desire. If you explain the value of their contribution, they'll be much more willing to lend a helping hand.

Include them in family decisions. Setting house rules? Planning a vacation? Moving homes? Buying a car? Include your child. By asking for their opinion, they'll feel like a valued part of the family. And you'll be surprised how many good ideas kids can offer.

Respect their decisions. Just as your kids should respect your decisions, do your best to respect theirs (within reason). Fight the urge to coordinate their mismatched outfit or rearrange their room décor. They'll flourish if you guide and support them as they grow into their own identity and individuality.