You may think of bonding as a one-time event that occurs just after birth. But bonding is an ongoing process with no clear beginning or end. In fact, Dad can bond with baby even before he or she is born. Many experts believe babies in the womb learn to recognize voices. Dad can make certain his voice is heard by talking, singing and gently rubbing your midsection. By doing so, your baby will learn to associate Dad's voice with a soothing rub before he or she even enters your world.
Encourage him to try these other ideas for bonding with your new arrival.
Physical closeness comforts babies. Many hospitals recommend a method of bonding called Kangaroo Care, especially for parents of premature infants. It has been proven to help premature babies thrive, but can be effective with full-term infants, too. While your infant is wearing only a diaper, Dad should hold her upright against the center of his bare chest. This skin-to-skin, heartbeat-to-heartbeat contact helps keep your baby warm, and the physical closeness comforts the baby.
Just as you enjoy a good massage, your baby does, too. In fact, many experts recommend a gentle massage to stimulate the baby and help with bonding. It is also said to aid digestion, relieve colic and ease tension. Look for a book or infant massage class to learn the appropriate technique.
Remind Dad that unless he's clean-shaven, his skin can be bristly and irritate baby's tender skin. For a closer shave and smoother skin, encourage him to use a high-quality razor, such as the Gillette® Mach3Turbo® with a lubricating strip and anti-friction blades, so when he's close, baby is comfortable.
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